Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Soaking it Up

Our summer is consisting of cousins, brothers, walking and so much ice cream. Two trips to the ice cream store today--such summertime permissive parents we are.

We headed down to a lake near my niece's house the other day for a birthday party. While we thought it would be way too chilly for a swim, Sojo dove right in and declared it a warm lake. The cousins had a ball jumping off the raft and swimming around. She only told me later she was freaked out by the animals she thought might be in the lake.

Just watching her brought me back to my own childhood, one filled with squishy mud at the bottom of ponds and summertime lake swims. 

Sunday, July 13, 2014


We love our summer stopover to break up the trip home, and this year we chose London. It was Dale's choice as he loves Shakespeare and the theater more than anyone I know. Somehow we were not quite thinking that London has a million things to offer, and we scheduled a mere 3 days in the city. With sunny weather and a great location on the South Bank, we took advantage of the time we had.

Our biggie was a 45 minute train ride into the English countryside to visit Roald Dahl's museum and hometown of Great Missenden. It was so nice to get a glimpse of something other than slightly chaotic London, and the charm of the village was quintessentially English. We wandered around the town afterwards and even read a Roald Dahl book during lunch.

We spent the rest of the time meeting up with friends and former students in the area of our hotel, which was right near the Thames and the London Eye. 

We only scratched the surface of all London has to offer, and I"m not sure vanilla ice cream counts as a cultural activity. I have a feeling this city will be on the summer stopover tour another year. Poor Dale never even got to the Globe theater! We must go back!

Saturday, July 05, 2014

Laughing At Ourselves

Dale and I are big on not taking ourselves too seriously. We are pretty great at keeping each other in check in life, and we laugh at ourselves quite a bit. We also tease each other like crazy, but we both feel it's the secret to our bliss.

This must be rubbing off on Sojo because she has entered this hilarious, glorious stage of deep, deep belly laughs. Mostly about herself and her mistakes, or us and our mistakes (oh, she just loves when we make mistakes!).  There is such happiness and relief on our part to see this change because we went through a very long stage of her being really hard on herself and being super embarrassed if she made even the tiniest mistake. Even if she fell down and we asked her if she was ok, she would freak out on us. These parent feet were tiptoeing on eggshells for a good while, but no longer...

Case in point is the other day, I walked into her room while she and her friend were hanging out. They told me they were both writing in their diaries. Cool enough. Then, she decided to read it to me. It went a little something like this:

"Dear Diary....wait--that's not right. I wrote Dear DAIRY instead of Dear Diary"

Insert kid giggles for funny spelling mistakes. Then I added,

"Dear Dairy, I love yogurt and cheese soooo much. They are the best. So is butter. I love all dairy."

Insert hilarious, literally knee-slapping belly laughs.

Now, all we have to say to each other is...."Dear Dairy" and we laugh like mad. Even when we went to the store for food the other day, I said to her, "Please be careful here because I know how much you love dairy. I don't want to catch you hugging and kissing random dairy products."

So, of course, we had no choice but to do just that.

Here's to living proof of my parenting (and teaching) motto: Love 'em through it.

Wednesday, July 02, 2014

Water Fun Day

Every year on the very last day of school, the entire kindergarten through 9th grade have a massive Water Fun day. It's absolutely legendary in our community, and kids convince their parents to not leave for summer break until after the Water Fun day ends. Truly, there are many who grab their suitcases and head off to the airport right when it's done. Some kids come back from boarding school in time to join in the fun, and it's pretty cool to see everyone so excited.

Sojo was sick last year on the last day of school, so she missed it. Neither Dale nor I were with her at her events, but this is the photo someone had of her going down the slip and slide. She had an absolute blast. Mind you, the heat was ferocious, but it didn't seem to bother her one bit.

Saturday, June 28, 2014

The Downside of Summer

One day into summer vacation, and most everyone has already scurried out of our small town to their other homes around the globe. That leaves us with a week left of school, and Sojo's best buddy is already in Ireland. I miss their sweet voices upstairs together, and now I have to find things for us to fill the days. We had a fierce ping pong match yesterday, some library time and a big ol' swim in the pool. Sojo also saw a video of her cousins on a BMX track in Oregon, and that inspired us to go and check out our own BMX track on camp early this morning. We had to get out there early to beat the crazy heat.

She did great for her first time, but we decided that doing it in December would be much more pleasant. 93 degrees already at 7:30 a.m. was a bit much.

Friday, June 27, 2014

Done and Dusted

First day of summer vacation, and we've put her to work...

Whew! Another school year done and dusted. First grade is finished, all Sojo's pants are way too short from all she's grown this year, and the temps are at about 118 degrees daily. We have one more week of work with no students, and then it's off to London and the US for a few weeks. It's been such an amazing school year for her, and I am forever grateful to her teacher for making her love school and love learning so much.

Sunday, June 22, 2014

Home Sick

I love to watch her sleep. Today she is home sick with a sore throat and a fever, but it's the kind of sick that just needs lots of rest and ice cream and mugs of chicken broth. My normally not super affectionate girl has told me she loves me about 100 times already today. I also mentioned to her at one point today that I always wonder why I got so lucky in life as to have her as my daughter. Later, she said to me, "I'm still thinking about why you are so lucky, but I just don't know why. You just are." 

So true, kiddo.